|If a man does not keep pace with his companions, perhaps it is because he hears a different drummer. Let him step to the music which he hears. -- Thoreau|
To settle for saying it more simply, most of us call ourselves swingers. Those of us who would accept that description are couples who share our sexual interests and activities with others. Some of us get together three or four or more at a time. Some of us exchange partners with another couple. Some, as individuals, get together with other individuals or couples. The combinations are as varied as people are.
What's it all about? - some or all of these:
Of the several million people in the lifestyle, most are married couples. Most of the others are unmarried couples who live together. Most of the few that are left after those are dating couples. There are just a few others who participate as singles.
It all started for me years ago. In 1989, when I was single and dating several women, I decided to look into the lifestyle because I thought I'd find more people with attitudes similar to mine. I did. It was a breath of fresh air for me.
Here's more about how I got started.
Let's take a serious look at marriage and other committed relationships.
Now, please check out my lifestyle Question and Answer page.
Some people say stuff about morality. If you do, read this.
These pages are not so much about sex as they are about relationship. Consider what monogamy really is.
Here's the best way I know to
about the lifestyle.
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