The book I'm recommending to you is not a definitive work. It is more of an investigation. It is far more complete, accurate, unbiased, thoughtful, and provocative than anything else I have seen on the subject. It will be quite valuable to anybody who reads it. I do not mean that whoever reads this book will see that swinging is the way to go - not at all. You don't have to be a swinger to benefit from what swingers have learned just as you don't have to be an astronomer to benefit from what astronomers know.

The book is: "The Lifestyle: A Look at the Erotic Rites of Swingers" by Terry Gould.

You can buy it at Amazon.com.